Update: continuation of the story: “Even better file switching for Vim”
I’ve been using the vim-fswitch plugin for switching between .h and .cpp files for a long time now. The thing I was really missing was the inability to switch to private headers and implementations (filename_p.h and filename_p.cpp)
Recently, I discovered the (more than awesome) CtrlP plugin. I am not going to explain here what it is - I strongly advise you to check it out!
I’ve written a small extension for it which provides the header/source/private files switcher.